These days, many young peolple live with their boy friends or girl friends before they are married. It is kind of a trend and a new lifestyle. They said that they can know each other better and find out whether their partners are a true lover or not. It is true. To know one's personality, there is nothing better than living together for a while. However, in my opinion, there are some problem with people living together before they are married.
First of all, there could be a lack of true feeling between the partners. I think that living together with your partner means a lot because they will eat together, sleep together, and share their life together. Therfore, they should be responsible for each other. However, I doubt whether people living together feel truly responsible for their partner. Some would argue that it doesn't matter if they are married or not, but I don't agree with them. For example, even if one couple lives together for several years, and suddenly one person leaves the other one simply because he or she finds another love, we could not blame him or her. Of course, it is not a good situation, but they can leave their partner when they want without any responsibility. Also, this kind of relationship can be too easy and light. What I mean is people would not think seriously about meeting someone, because they feel like treasure hunting. If he or she is a right person that is good, but if not they will just leave and abandon them.
To conclude, living together is a good way to find out about what kind of person their partner is. On the other hand, we should realise that without responsibilty we could hurt someone's heart.
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