Friday, 21 November 2008

How you can use your acknowledgement of gender?

I think the men who live in this country tend not to dominate women, compared to men who live in Japan. The reason why I think this is because men listen to what women say with respect. In addition, they seem to appreciate what women have done for men. This attitude may encourage women to work, and it gives satisfaction to women because generally, women need approval. These men’s attitudes may help encourage better and smoother relationships between men and women.

In contrast to English men, Japanese men tend to lack appreciation of the things which women have done for them. Moreover, there is a tendency for men to take women’s behaviour as natural or usual, so they do not express their thanks. This behaviour may decrease the motivation of women, and also it may lead to worse relationships between men and women.

The number of divorces in later years is increasing these days in Japan and most of the allegations are from wives. One of the reasons for divorce is Japanese men are unlikely to express their appreciation of women. Additionally, the reason for this increase is that men usually have a lack of delicacy so that they may not be able to pick up the signs which women have been sending. These represent men tending to be insensitive towards women’s attitude. However, I think it shows that men have an ability to be patient. I think men also have many points to say to women, even though, they tend to keep their emotions bottled up instead of expressing them.

Concerning these points, I think these outcomes represent how society has been changing to make gender more equal. However, I think this change also leads to disrespect. In my opinion, if one gender notices the tendency of the other, they should use this acknowledgement to make the relationship better.

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